by Tim Howard
Oscar Wilde said: “I can resist anything except
temptation.” I can relate! How about you? You’ve got to remember, when it comes
knocking on your door you don’t have to open it!
Unfortunately, that’s easier said than done.
Closing the door to temptation can be daunting. If you always say ‘yes’ when it
knocks then you have yet to realize the level of difficulty. Only those who try
to resist know how strong it is.
Temptation is like food – we’re enticed to eat the
wrong things and those things that are healthy are not attractive to us. Too often
we think of temptation as being enticed to do big things like stealing,
murdering or committing adultery. But most often we're tempted to be impatient,
stingy, jealous, greedy or just plain lazy and apathetic.
A survey I read listed ten powerful temptations
people face in this culture. Here’s five or them:
1. The desire to buy more than they can afford.
2. The temptation to put themselves first and live
a self-centered life.
3. The inclination to laziness rather than
productivity – to do nothing rather than something.
4. The enticement to procrastinate.
5. The temptation to make pleasure more important
than purpose.
According to the dictionary, temptation is the act
of enticement with the purpose of causing you to do something wrong or
unprofitable by promising something positive. Temptation motivates you to do
‘bad’ by promising something good. The Bible totally agrees with this and
affirms the need to say NO when it comes.
Temptation shows up early in the Biblical
narrative. Only 3 chapters into the Bible we are told of a couple named Adam
and Eve who were tempted to disobey God for the purpose of setting up their own
autonomy. Guess what! They yielded to the voice of temptation and others were impacted
negatively.
When you yield to the temptation of surfing the
Internet while you’re being paid to work, the productivity or your company
decreases. When you sit on the couch watching sports knowing you should be helping
your mate, your relationship suffers. When you’re tempted to lie rather than
tell the truth, you sacrifice your integrity if you yield.
Here are four things I’ve learned that may help in
this ongoing battle with temptation and it is ongoing!
1. You have a better chance of
standing strong in the midst of temptation if you have an exit strategy before
you experience it. Schools and companies have an escape plan set in place in
case of fire. People living in hurricane areas have a calculated strategy for
when the winds come. And coaches never go into a contest without a game plan.
Ask yourself: How am I going to escape when it happens to me? Get a plan!
2. It’s critical to identify your
weaknesses prior to a moment of enticement since temptation looks for your weak
moments. In Luke 4 when Jesus was tempted, we are told that the devil left Him
for another ‘opportune’ time. You can strengthen your resolve if you’re aware
of your vulnerable points and set up a guard.
3. People who lose the battle to
temptation have often lost sight of the big picture. He or she becomes myopic,
only seeing what benefits them.
4. Be willing to fight. (James 4:7) There will always be a battle but if you’re willing to close the door on temptation it will bear great dividends.
4. Be willing to fight. (James 4:7) There will always be a battle but if you’re willing to close the door on temptation it will bear great dividends.
