by Andrew Cromwell
One of life’s most important skills is the
ability to solve problems. Why? People have and always will have problems.
Truth is, problems and challenges for human beings are like water to a fish.
Without them we cease being who we were created to be.
The next time you begin to think life would
be so much better without any of your problems, remind yourself of the
youngster who came across an old man sitting on a bench looking lonely and
depressed. He asked the old man, “What is life’s heaviest burden?” The old man
sadly replied, “Having no burden at all.”
Am I suggesting that every problem is a
wonderful thing? Of course not! Many of our problems are caused by our own
stupid behavior and decisions. In a letter to Timothy, Paul writes “because
of the love of money...many have pierced themselves with sorrows.” Many of us have created for ourselves serious
problems because we haven’t been able to say “no” to the “I want” bug.
But every problem—whether created by our own
selfishness, by the actions of someone else or simply by the very nature of our
broken world—can also be seen as opportunities. Problems present opportunities
for personal growth. They also give us opportunities for advancement at home
and at work. The quickest ways to gain favor is to fix a problem!
Just remember, not every problem can be
fixed. Sometimes we fail to differentiate between a problem and a fact of life.
We then spend way too much time trying to fix something that is just the way
things are. Your mother-in-law is just your mother-in-law; don’t expect that
you can transform her into something else! Please note, this does not apply to
my mother-in-law, just yours.
And don’t waste time fixing problems that
don’t make a difference. Don’t polish the brass on a sinking ship. Focus
instead on things that really matter. My guess is that there are a few key
problems that you have in your life. These problems are big ones—they involve
relationships or deep financial issues or both. These things are not easily
fixed. But if you begin to address these issues effectively, your whole life
will move in a positive direction.
We all face huge challenges in life. The good
news is, we also have a Father in heaven who is bigger than any of them and He
wants to help. He wants His children to experience life at its fullest. The
question for each of us is, do we want His help?
This weekend, the pastors in Kings County
would love to speak to you about the resources God has for you. So when you
begin to face down those problems that keep you awake at night, you’ve got
Somebody big standing next to you!