by Tim Howard
I‘ve
followed several great men and women over my years and have been helped greatly
by them in the process of maturity. They led in such a way as to elicit from me
loyalty, faithfulness, a willingness to sacrifice and a strong desire to follow
them.
How do
you develop a team that people want to play on? A better way of putting it
might be to reword the question. How do you become a leader people want to
follow?
One key
word is “Environment.” We all create a certain environment, atmosphere or aura
if you will, that other people can see, sense and react to. How many of you
find yourself rejoicing when a certain co-worker calls the office to say they
won’t be in on a specific day? Be honest! You rejoice when they are not
present because they create an environment that’s not very pleasant. The
opposite is true also. We miss someone because they create an atmosphere that
is enjoyable.
A sign
I recently read said: “All people bring me joy, some when they come and others
when they leave.” That sums it up.
A
good atmosphere or a good environment keeps the morale high and when the morale
is high, people want to follow you. They look forward to playing on the team.
Your goal and greatest challenge as a leader is not merely to complete a
task but create an environment conducive to growth.
Here’s
4 ways to destroy a good atmosphere on the job, in the home, at the school, in
a meeting and a myriad of other places.
1.
COMPARE people with others rather than ACCEPT them on their own merits. When
you do, an environment of favoritism flourishes. Jacob did this in
Genesis Chapter 37. He loved one son more than the others and the family hated
the climate this created. Whenever you compare people, you value one above the
other.
2.
The environment
drastically changes when you CRITICIZE people more than COMPLEMENT them. How many of you would
admit: When the boss asks you to step into his office, the first thing to go
through your mind is this question: “What Did I Do Wrong?” Focusing on the good
and giving some praise now and then can build the morale and create a positive
attitude.
3.
TALK TO people and not COMMUNICATE WITH them. You will see how
quickly things deteriorate. You can talk AT people, TO people or WITH people
and it’s best to talk with them.
4.
COMPLAIN about everything but don’t CHANGE
anything. People
don’t want to follow a leader who chooses not to deal with the ‘elephant’ in
the room.
God’s
looking for leaders who will accept others on His terms and not their own.
Leaders who will focus on the positive and give praise regularly rather than
criticize continually. Ones who communicate with people and love people enough
to correct a wrong.
Why
not check out one of the many church families in Kings County this weekend. You
just might find an environment you can enjoy.
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